Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Dream and Economic Crisis

Dream...dream...dream....ZZzzz

Dreams only occur when we are sleeping?! I'm not talking that kind of dream^^ It's about what you hope to get in future and it could be either very fantastic and unrealistic or achievable. 

For most of the successful people, they are great because of BIG dreams. Normally, there are very less people to think big and do big. Somehow, I'm wondering why it is so and it's free of charge to think big, dream big. They're not dare to dream, because of reality settings limit their abilities?? 

Economic crisis, these words always go around my ears recently...

does it matter you to make more money or getting closer to your dreams?? In fact, nowadays economic status is going down and even deeper but the critical thing is "economic crisis" two words. These two words come out from many people's mouth most of the time, it indirectly forms a negative thought on financial aspect, performance and others. How influential it is?? Have you thought of affecting relationship between your family members, friends and others by two words? have you thought of your self-identity, self-concept and others about self? 

Actually, this is what I have experienced and realized that it does affect my life just because of the two words. It made me always think that it's a problem, so I have to do there and do this instead of what I suppose to do as in making choices, more concerning about money which is quite annoying sometimes. The main thing is that, it made me more stress on it that cannot focus on my current stuff. Somehow and don't know how, I figured it out and understood it why it is so, then everything becomes brighter and clearer. 

For me, I'm a healthy thinking person from an unhealthy family. Why I said so? Both of parents are not that positive thinking people as what I think at the first place. Since today's lecture psy204, I change to look at different side of the causes for them. As what Peter Koh said, parents behave this way almost similar to how their parents behave to them as in passing the patterns from current generation to next generation which is inappropriate. Everything is changing, even  biological, psychological, and physiological changes in human will never ever stop, still yet some people do not want to change, it may cause a gap between new age people and old style thinking people. 

Rich dad, and poor dad, it's very famous around the world and everyone surely knows it. And for me, I have rich god mom and poor mom but I love both of them, just that they have a different thinking style on financial aspect which is similar to (It could be my pre-experience makes me think this way^^). Both of their perspectives do really improve my attitudes and the way of thinking on financial management, earning resources and others. I really appreciate their ideals and cares. And I not gonna talk about their differences of their thinking styles, because you know...kinda dilemma HAHA!!!


Anyways, there definitely have lots of factors may involve when a problem occurs. Do think more and deep but stubborn thinking...