People usually take things for granted?
Especially happen in family?!
I'm kinda against it occurs in family but every one in my family is doing it like nobody business.
They say something or blame something without caring other's feelings...
and I tried one thing this morning, it's something like projection...
This morning, I wanted to read a book, so I sat down and read then my mom asked me to do scratching while reading and the reason is that " it's not good for you to sit down and read, you're OBESE!!!" she said. Then, I was a little bit upset then answer "you too." After that, she was scolding back like a machine gun non stop for about 10 minutes. I was laughing inside my heart and asked myself if I project the feelings to her.
When I'm recalling it, I pull myself out of the situation and look from different angles. It reminds me how my family communicate and work together and they always kinda expect you know this and that but in fact, I know nothing about what you want or else and take your stuff without informing till I scold. I'm thinking whether I'm allowed say something without caring your and others' feelings in a family. Possibly, due to my people oriented personality, I don't agree with this unless there are some stupid same mistakes done again and again.
Actually, there are many so-called family traditions in my family that I want to stop from my generation because I can imagine what will happen in my future family if I follow the "family traditions". From here you can see I'm a rule breaker.
Anyways, time flies, things change, human's mind changes? this is a very good question to leave to answer. thoughts shape behaviors or behaviors shape thoughts?
